Feelings & Togetherness
What is disappointment?
Puschel's plan does not work out. Flauschi gives him time for his disappointment.
The short answer
Disappointment happens when things turn out differently from what you hoped. You may feel sad or angry. You can ask for support and do not have to find a bright side straight away.
An imagined Wusel scene
Puschel and Flauschi investigate
Puschel is looking forward to their outing. When it is cancelled, he pushes his bag away. Flauschi sits with him and listens without immediately suggesting a replacement. Only later does he ask if they could plan another small activity.
Try explaining it
This question is about a fictional situation and considerate actions, not about which feelings you should have.
The outing is cancelled. What gives Puschel room for disappointment?
Choose a), b) or c), then explain your choice.
- a)Ask whether he wants to talk or have quiet first.
- b)Force him to be cheerful immediately.
- c)Tell him that feeling is forbidden.
Show the explanation
Correct: a): Ask whether he wants to talk or have quiet first.
Disappointment happens when things turn out differently from what you hoped. You may feel sad or angry. You can ask for support and do not have to find a bright side straight away.
Think about it, if you like
You can use the fictional situation; you do not have to share personal experiences.
An outing is cancelled. What might help someone who feels disappointed?
One possible idea
You could ask whether they want to talk or have some quiet first. A replacement plan can wait. There is no single right response.
Explore in more detail
Here you will find longer explanations and further details. You can explore them together.
Understand step by step
What does this mean in everyday life?
Examples are possible situations. You need not feel a particular emotion or share a personal story.
Separate hope and outcome
You expect a trip but it is cancelled. The gap between wish and reality can disappoint.
Feelings may differ
You may be sad, angry or both. Nobody must react like the picture.
Support before instant replacement
An adult can listen. Later consider another plan if wanted. A replacement need not erase disappointment immediately.
References for this explanation: [1]
The key points again
Discovery 1
Disappointment can arise when something turns out differently from what we hoped.
Source: [1]
Discovery 2
It may feel like sadness, anger or both. People experience it differently.
Source: [1]
Discovery 3
You may name the feeling and ask for support. You do not have to find a bright side immediately.
Source: [1]